"Dil se nhi Dimaag se socha karo" - Has anyone ever said this to you?
If the answer is Yes, then this post is for you, and for all the people, who chose to listen to their heart, their gut and feelings, rather than calculating every thing prior to engagement.
You are awesome! You are simply awesome the way you function. You are among the rare ones who have the capacity to forget, capacity to forgive! And it’s not everyone's cup of tea!
This makes you stronger than those who are asking you to change. The reality is that they want to be like you but oh gosh! you have set such high standards for them. Hence, they try to change you, change you in a way that could satisfy their ego, change you in a way that could lower down the standards for them.
Few things in life do not always have to be measured. They just work out if you show acceptance. I believe that the beauty of life lies in an inquisitive mind which sees everything just as magic, just like a baby, as if everything is working in it’s favor.
Acceptance negotiates the need of adjustment as well.
One can adjust in terms of Job, opportunities and such materialistic stuffs, but if you are being asked to change your innate nature, you know that you need to change the situation and the vibes around you.
Once you respect the way other person functions mentally as well as emotionally, all the so called adjustments too feel like joy.
So, as they say, "Don't hurry, don't worry, trust the process!" Everything will fall into place when it is the right time.
All I just want to say is - Don't try to change yourself to seek acceptance from others. You have been made like this by the Supreme power for some purpose. Identify that and keep going!
Good Luck!!
Superb!! So true this piece of thought and expressed brilliantly in words as well :)
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DeleteOne hundred percent true and fact. You be what you are. Adaptability is necessary but not always, when it comes to self respect. Whatever condition self respect is to be maintained. Your thought process is well defined and Cristal clear. Our best wishes and blessings for your future.
DeleteThank you Sir/Ma'am for such motivating words!! I am happy to know that people are able to connect with what I am writing. This motivates me to write more.
DeleteWow, very well written!!
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DeleteGreat!!
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DeleteNicee... You have really poured your heart out! An excerpt which will encourage people to Live with their heart open.. 😍😍
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Tamanna! Means a lot 😘
DeleteBeautiful! :)
ReplyDeleteThank you Charu;)
DeleteWell written...
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DeleteThere's head over heart for a reason...
ReplyDeleteWe make it otherwise i.e. Heart over head... And its consequences are well known...
Nice Blog Bharti 😇😇😇🙏🏻🙏🏻😍😍
One over or below other may nt br the point. The idea shud b do wat ur heart says, use ur awesome brain to pave out the way 😊
DeleteBrain is definitely important... but only logic doesn’t suffice , its just the rudimentary approach.
There are other aspects of innate intelligence that we oft choose to ignore
I agree with siku :D
DeleteThanks for the comments Akhil😊
though both type of people are important: Those who think more and those who feel more.. I respect both kinds😄
Superb bharti well written.keep blogging !!!😘
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DeleteThis definitely strikes a chord. And u r such an awesome writer Bharti!! Simple, clear writing.
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot Sikta😘
DeleteYou have 'simply' poured your heart out.
ReplyDeleteThank you Chachu:)
DeleteCrisp and clear... nicely done Bharti..
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Tanuja....
Thank you Tanu:)
DeleteEverytime I used to feel and question myself why we need to think from mind and felt demotivated but there are people who think from heart and that's not wrong... Awesome Bharti... lovely... Made my day... :)
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DeleteSupperrrrr...dear
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DeleteVery well written Bharti! Don't try to change to seek acceptance of others is completely true!!
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Thank you Mona😘
DeleteSuperb!! Indeed it is true! I hope people on both the sides understand this and make the world a beautiful place to live!!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Amita.. True that, acceptance makes lives easier and hence bring happiness :)
DeleteGreat thoughts.��
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